That line should be in your mind, at the time of immense pain.
Plain direct. |
Wait, immense pain? Who are we to talk about immense pain when we haven't even experience it before? Well, we are human , after all. And that's probably good enough.
Anyway, why do we fear pain? Is it because there is something we feel foreign to us attacking our very soul? That we have no idea of what we're up against? The fear of the unknown? Whatever the reason, pain is always there, right? And isn't it our choice to choose how we deal with pain?
Sure, but what if we choose wrongly? What if we go with the wrong approach?
But, you know what? You're right. We aren't talking about the right stuff here. What's needed to addressed here is why there is fear of pain, and if we know why, how are going to deal with the fear? Interesting, but not something we should ponder for too long. Fear of pain (or fear itself) can be a long ordeal, and it'll dawn on you that you haven't got what it takes to get over the pain. And worst of all, the pain only keeps intensifying...
Well, we need pain. No doubt about that. But, do we need to face the prospect of facing pain? No, hold it. Whoever said the prospect of pain can be so daunting that we begin to the fear pain?! Why can't we face it and 'take it like a man'? Ha-ha. Yep, ha-ha, folks. If there is such a thing as taking it like a man, then we are ALL tough guys, which we are most certainly not.
At the end of the day, the fear of pain is like any other type of fear. Which means, you gotta deal with it.